Agonising Abstinence

I have never been the type to consider sex before marriage sinful or wrong, nor do I think that it takes away from the commitment of marriage once you have found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and yet, after years of experience and trying many things I never thought I would even consider doing, let alone adore doing – I find myself seven days into a month long vow of celibacy…

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Believe it or not, this was actually my idea… at the time, my choice was based more on me wanting to prove to my partner that I could actually survive without any sexual acts (yes, we have excluded passionate kissing here as well – what the hell was I thinking???) as well as simply challenging myself with something that I knew would not be easy to achieve – but now I see that this invisible chastity belt of pain and anguish is far more valuable than I imagined.

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Still, I type this… tongue on the floor, panties in a knot, mind darting from one pornographic image to the next – desperately fantasizing about the beautifully wrapped handle of our bamboo cane tightly nuzzled between his fingers, that now sits lonely in a corner calling my name each and every single day as I open the front door after a hard days work… torture? Oh you have no idea!

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It is now, at my weakest, that I ask all of you to please Be Obscene for me while I wait for the chance to make up for lost times on our wedding night… I dare you, I implore you, challenge you and think of you – make me proud ladies and gentlemen!!!

 

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Fear and Loathing in the Bedroom

While writing articles about fantasy and what my sexual dreams may or may not entail has been fun… I have decided to take the more realistic approach.

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You see, sex to me, whether kinky or vanilla, comes naturally. It is an act that I am not afraid to embrace and short of scat, there is not much I would not consider trying. All too often, I have tried to discuss sex with the people that surround me, wanting to know their sexual likes and dislikes, their passions and pains, but it would seem as though there are too many freaks out their that are scared to admit just how freaky they are.

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Moving forward, I would hope that you could all be brutally honest about how you feel about sex and the other kinky questions I ask. Not because I get some kind of kick from having you expose your inner most desires, but because I want you to encourage you to challenge yourself by pushing your sexual boundaries until you are able to admit that some of the nasty and perverted things you thought you would never consider trying, you now love and cannot go without.

Yes, I sell a wide variety of twisted, tenacious toys, lingerie, lubes and lotions and yes I would like to share my favourites with  you all, but while growing my business is a goal of mine – I can assure you that sharing my sexual views and the views of others as well as breaking the judgement that surrounds BDSM is far more important to me.

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I want you to be able to watch porn freely, with or without your partner. I want you to look at the strange and ominous hook that you thought belonged in the kitchen and know exactly what purpose it serves and how it can help you to reach a new level of satisfaction. I want you to be confident enough to tell me and others that seeing the marks left behind by rope having been tightly coiled around her body gets you off like nothing else on earth, but more than anything, I just want you to be your sexual, sated self.

BE OBSCENE LADIES AND GENTS!!! You know you want to be 😉

Silence

They say that silence can be both deafening and golden – which is it to you?

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Do you thrive on the thought of how filthy he just might get when compelled to help you keep your mouth shut as you teeter on the edge of consuming satisfaction? Does it make you shift in your seat to imagine his fingers clamped desperately around your throat, your mouth unable to utter a single sound except for your very last breath escaping terrified from your lips?

Oh how scrumptious that which we are taught to believe is wrong as children can be once we become adults – not due to age but pure demented, twisted, wicked and wonderful experience.

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Deafening silence lends itself to limp limbs and yawns of boredom. It mocks your desire, your sexuality, releasing uncontrollable bursts of laughter at you as you try – in vain – to thrill, and ultimately spill, yourself and your partner.

I say, suspend it, arms and legs clamped. Watch it panic, its anticipation growing. Tap your palm with that strategically studded paddle, allow vengeance to extend a threatening glint to your eyes… There is no place for silence here, unless – of course – it is forced upon a soon to be pile of quivering human release and relief.

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Be Obscene – Because simple, relentless and complete pleasure never comes quietly.

Fancy Footwork

What tickles you pink? A woman straight off of the cover of Vogue with long, perfectly defined stems that you feel would look best wrapped around your neck – you buried balls deep inside her? A pair of deliciously plump and puckered lips – on her face or, even yummier, between her thighs? Your very own Christian Grey with large, well-manicured hands, furnished with fingers long enough to make your ex feel feminine?

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Or is it, by some chance, possible that the thought of having her slide her foot (prepubescently pumiced, nails varnished in a colour that tugs enticingly at the dark desires tingling in your groin) over your sex – her toes teasing the tip of your hastily growing member as you realize that lubricant does, in fact, have a greater purpose – is what you truly crave?

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Is it not purely fantastic that we, as basic sexual Neanderthals, are able to find such beauty in a body part that most consider important enough only to decorate with shoes?

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Be Obscene – Give in, give up, surrender, normal should never be the standard!

C.H.O.K.E.

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you read the word choke? Take your time… allow the word to roll slowly off of the tip of your curious tongue – C.H.O.K.E

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Do you paint the comedic picture of an anxious, yet too exhausted to care, waitress awkwardly hunched over and obese, spluttering regular as he desperately attempts to free the smirking chicken bone from his lard enveloped wind pipe, in vain?

 

Do you imagine the sports team you have cherished and celebrated since you first learnt to cheer, mournfully trudging through bruised, abused blades of grass… After having won every single highly anticipated match leading up to the grand finale – which you, the die hard supporter – wearing none other than a clown wig and a badly painted face – know in your heart of hearts they simply cannot lose – they do of course, end up losing.

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Or do you immediately envision being on your knees, both of them burning as you rock back and forth on the unforgiving carpet, while you prepare for the gagging, gasping, gobbing and grinning that comes with the satisfaction of having him shove his sturdy, swelling sex to the back of your throat – your eyes alight with delicious panic.

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Sometimes, it simply takes someone of the same, filthy mindset to set your soul on fire – to make you see that your depravity, is in fact, not that depraved after all!

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When Fantasy Becomes Reality

I have always been the kind of woman that knows what she wants and does everything within her means to get it – especially when it comes to the sexual desires that plague me most…

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Like a door that impatiently taps at its hinges with the slightest hint of a breeze… Like a two year old that simply refuses to leave without its favourite rainbow coloured candy in hand, splashed chaotically across it’s face – holding it’s breath until rosy cheeks become blue. Like a dog at a bone…

 

These sexual desires call my name, tease, taunt and tempt me.

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Needless to say, I have reached another milestone when it comes to making my most oh-so-soaking fantasies a reality – I will finally be able to show my throbbing and rock solid master that I can lick some pink, sticky and cleanly shaven sex just as well as he can.

 

There is no excuse as mischievous as one that allows you to make use of a scrumptiously curved silicone strap on, crafted only in the most glaring and devilish crimson. The tingles that warmly spread in your groin as you get more and more moist, while the nylon straps discretely bite at the tender flesh of your virginal thighs… this is power!

 

How would you rein act this tantalising, taboo tryst?  Is she bent over, holding her lips open in anticipation while he watches you, ready to gag her with his rigid, aching sex? Or will you splutter and gasp all over his length as you push – impatiently and uncontrollably – deeper into her?

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Be Obscene – Because sex is all about experimenting and savouring the risks that come with it!

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Aggression

Most of us live in a world limited by what society deems both appropriate and taboo. We believe what the fearful and self conscious tell us without realising that we, ourselves, should not be fearful or self conscious – but rather, confident and open minded enough to try everything at least once without judgement.

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Sometimes, we don’t like to admit it – but when it comes to the fetishes and fantasies that truly have us sitting on the edge of our seats, begging for release – it is generally the darker, more forbidden, depraved things that get us going.

 

Do you want her to take control? To leave you, the man – the beast that is able to split her in half – in a bruised and bitten pile of pleasure on the bedroom floor, after having dominated you gagged and hungry-for-more alter ego.

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Are you brave enough to confess that the twinge of pain that comes with him filling your stretched, sweetly sensitive sex, makes you want him to thrust even deeper than he already has… makes you want him to grab hold of you hips and pull you back onto him, just when you think you couldn’t possibly take any more?

 

It’s not always about acting on the dark desires you constantly force to the back of your mind – it’s about finding someone that thinks on the same primitive, sexual level… someone that will embrace each and every one with you.

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Be Obscene – Because life’s too short to be anything else!!!

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