Sex and sexuality is so simple and yet we seem to over complicate things so much. One painful blow to our kinky ego causes us to behave differently when it comes to doing the dirty forever, and a moment of embarrassment leads us to never trying something new or ‘unusual’ again.
My question is why?
If we can lose loved ones, go through unimaginable heartbreak, be alone, bullied, experience excruciating pain and still come out on the other side of it all stronger and better than ever before – then why is it that carnal, delicious fucking can’t be the same?
I encourage you to move on…. Have an ex that cheated on you with men/women that are the complete opposite of you? Have a wife that left you for another woman, ten years and three children later, or perhaps a husband that has recently started wearing your underwear?
Get over it and move on from what you cannot accept… deep down we all have fantasies that we feel are too taboo to embrace, fantasies that we only tell a very select few or maybe even choose to keep to ourselves for an entire lifetime, fearing judgment and isolation.
I encourage you to never stop learning. Communicate with your partner and realize that if your hardcore, insane and downright OBSCENE wishes aren’t going to come true with him/her, it is time to move on to a kinky counterpart that probably has naughtier thoughts than you do.
You can’t fight the natural order of things. Mufasa will hunt and kill Bambi… Gay men do have anal sex and some people want to be bitten until they bleed. Gone are the days where we need to leave a sex store with a hood over our bowed heads and sinful goodies hidden in a brown paper bag as if what we are going home to do is illegal.
I dare you to stand proud and acknowledge that what your primitive being craves is worth pursuing. Know that while there are sexual boundaries out there that should never be crossed – it is nothing that a yummy outfit and a bit of role play with the right person cannot bring to life instead.
The festive season has arrived and if you aren’t already on leave, you will be soon. Do something that will make the prudes cringe and the like minded nod their heads in admiration 😉
Be Obscene ladies and gentlemen.